I had read about some sort of nuline polish being applied. It seemed more aimed at prevention of the sticky shed issue, and I'm understanding it as an alternative (or in addition to) tape 'baking'. Less at fixing problems and more at preserving tape.
Most of the tapes with this issue are non-SP, but according to a card in the cases, both Betacam and BetacamSP can come either as 'oxide' or 'metal' -- attached this info card for reference and some good hints on tape storage. Fuji tapes in my experience so far have been the least likely to have this issue (or any issue). I have encountered BetacamSP tapes with the 'same issue'.
I also think it's odd to be worse after baking; maybe I didn't bake it long enough or maybe the baking was irrelevant (and it just got worse on the 2nd playback).
'tape dropout' were the magic words and it seems likely that is what I'm currently chasing with these issues. So I picture these culprits as causing the 'tape dropout' I see:
- Permanent tape damage (somehow)
- Poor tension resulting in poor contact with the heads
- Bad or dirty heads
As far as I know permanent tape damage that is unaffected by baking would mean I'm basically SOL. So Hopefully that's not the case with all of them...
Poor tension is something I'm wondering about. I had heard maybe this method for improving tape tension: rewind or make sure tape is all one one spool, bake for 24 hours, fast forward to other spool, bake another 24, etc.. I have yet to try this yet but am curious about anything inside the machines I could check for tension as well. Do dynamic tracking adjustments have something to do with this?
Bad or dirty heads, hopefully that can be found out conclusively. As I said the trouble tapes act the same across machines, but all these machines are old and all either UVW-1200 or 1400A, so I could have worn heads exhibiting similar issues with specific tapes. So..buy more, higher-end machines to test...

Willing to try something slightly more abrasive on the heads as well, but as they play many tapes perfectly, am also hesitant.
I don't watch many youtube videos, to my great detriment. Also I said before 20-30 years old, but most of these tapes are from the 1980s, so a
minimum of 40 years since they've been put inside a tape deck...
Oddly enough, the older Umatic tapes are much more predictable. Incubate for the right amount of time and I've had no trouble whatsoever with those -- although I do bake every one pre-emptively at this point.
Thanks for the thoughts