Hi ench0,
You are not alone
I also use FreeBSD, and encoding is also faster with mencoder under FreeBSD than in Windows or Linux.
Have you tried the Linux version of MencodeME under FreeBSD
I haven't, because currently my BSD setup is text mde only, using it as a server/firewall.
I think next week I'll CVS update my old FreeBSD Workstation disk (version 4.0) to the current 5.2.1, and then I'll try MencodeME on BSD
As a matter of fact, one of the reasons I was still using Windows was because of Skype, for voice communications.
FreeBSD includes the TeamSpeak client, so if I'm able to install that and run it, I'll finally get rid of my WinXP
I'll just backup all my e-mails from Mozilla Thunderbird on Windows, and transfer them to BSD, and the same with my Firefox bookmarks.
For DVD related tools in FreeBSD, change directory to
/usr/ports and then type
make search key=dvd
(You must have installed the ports collection for this to work)
See what you get
-kwag