VirtualDub 1.9.x, with proper settings, is the first attempt, always.
When fail, ask for help with settings.
VirtualDub2 is the fallback. Again, proper settings, ask for help as needed.
AmaRecTV gets oversuggested. There is something going on there that requires further inspection.
AmaRecTV is when nothing else works. That said, it works with few cards, mostly Hauppauge and ATI. It almost never works with Pinnacle cards. It's just buggy software, and was never well vetted by the video capture community. It's as old as
VirtualDub, and was originally released in non-English (Japanese) as an analog version of OBS for webcam and video games. Webcam/game has different needs and allowances for duping/adding/dropping frames.
There are actually other programs I'd suggest after VirtualDub, before AmaRecTV, but it just never gets there, VirtualDub almost always eventually works fine with settings tweaked. Those were better vetted in their day.
Regarding exact issue here...
Have you tried Preview vs Overlay mode?
In Preview Acceleration, see how the different modes respond.
The issue is likely the graphics card. What is in the system?